How to improve children’s practical ability
Now the family are mostly one-child families, the family around the child forward, anxious to put all the things to do for their children, but parents should calmly think about the consequences of doing that? Now to keep the kids do, and so on children grow up, he would not do anything, do not bother to do it, because in his mind, Mom and Dad will sooner or later arranged for their own good. Do that day, the is too late.
As the saying goes, “ingenuity”, dexterous hands of a person’s well-developed brain, one of the symbols. Children in the process to explore the world through their own efforts are always trying to satisfy their own curiosity, for example, children see the flowers is very beautiful, he will work hard to bring a small arm out Quzhainaduo flowers, this is the basic child practical ability.
Hands-on work is the basis for a child to grow, but also a prerequisite for intellectual development of children. 3-year-old child in the act before the sensitive period, parents must seize this critical period, according to the child’s stage of development to allow more children hands-on work. The child can be more hands-on training their children and accuracy of movement coordination, athletic ability and the promotion of the child thinking development; let children help their parents to do some more hands-on things within its power, you can also let children experience their parents is not easy to know how to honor their parents . What parents should let children play in the process enhance the hands-on capacity?
In fact, this is not difficult, the parents would not always do it to encourage children to yourself, life’s practical ability to raise a child There are many ways.
1. Let children learn to take care of themselves in their daily lives, their own things as possible to complete their own
Children learn to walk, after a lot of scope of activities expanded significantly, when children are very willing to do something. But their hands and feet of the coordination is not perfect, Zuoqishilai often “clumsy” Parents Do not trouble or cumbersome because of suspected child be deprived of opportunities for children to learn work, parents can patiently repeated their children to do demonstrations Children at the mercy imitation, eventually they never skilled to skilled and finally ease of use. Can teach their children themselves gradually learn to tie your shoes, undress, put bedding, pick up his room, wash a few simple things, and so on.
Kindergarten PTA meetings, the teacher deliberately to the child’s parents had arranged a family business – teaching children skin peeling eggs. One mother whispered in the following saying: “It’s more difficult for children ah, my family did not know his son does look like an egg!” Teachers find it very strange that children are so big, how could you not know what an egg looks like it, who Mom went on to say: “I always fear boiled egg yolk would choke a child, and now has also been to him only to eat chicken Dangeng.” presence of teachers and parents were all shocked.
The mother really love their children, in everyday life, taking on everything, nothing can be good for their children, children in kindergarten had never seen even like eggs. This love the ability to destroy a child’s hands and eventually will lead to the child nothing.
2. Encourage your child within its power to help others
Family life is a kind of collective life, can also be seen as a microcosm of society, parents should guide their children to do something more for their parents, which can be of some small things, such as sweeping, wiping tables, washing bowls and chopsticks, etc., from small training the sake of the child’s awareness of others.
3. Parents should be good praise a child
When the children to do it, or done a good job, parents should immediately praise and encouragement, to mobilize the enthusiasm of a child and enhance children’s self-esteem and confidence. Try not to praise this kind in the form of, for example to the children to buy toys, buy delicious things and so on, because it so easy to stimulate the child’s vanity, over time, it will hinder a child’s healthy development.
In short, everywhere have a chance in life, the child born is a genius, as long as there is enough room, they can play out endless pattern. From the traditional values of their parents coming out to encourage children to play more, play more than the process of their children see, listen more, think the key is more hands-on, their children develop into a confident, optimistic, creative people.
